When making funeral arrangements for a dearly departed loved one, you may be tasked with writing the epitaph for a grave marker. This burial inscription to clearly memorialize the deceased in a way that best represents their life and legacy. Here are a few tips for creating a touching and meaningful one.

How to Create an Epitaph

1. Include Key Information 

Epitaphs must be concise due to space limitations, so including a few basics is a good place to start. The deceased’s full legal name along with birth and death dates are typically there, but you can also add a fond nickname. Leave space for a short phrase about the person. Nowadays many family members choose a simple image or emblem, and many opt to display a photo.

2. Ask Other Family

Asking close family and friends for ideas will help you narrow down phrases that will clearly describe the person who has died. Consulting other family is also advised to ensure everyone feels part of the process and agrees to the words on their loved one’s final resting place.

3. Consider Character

Think about the person as they were in life. Were they spiritual and should their funeral and grave reflect their faith? You can use verses from their holy book, quotes from poems and books, or even song lyrics from their favorite tune. Remember the tone and personality of your loved one and try to tailor their epitaph to match.

4. Include Their Legacy

Many people choose to include a short phrase about their legacy, such as describing them as a beloved wife and mother. You can include a note about their service in the military if appropriate, along with any charity work, places, or missions they dedicated themselves to.

5. Opt for Timeless Classics

Try to avoid trends that may not be understood by visitors in the future. Consider phrases that stand the test of time and will still be significant for descendants of the deceased. Enduring quotes and simple phrases may prove more enduring than obscure references. 

 

When someone you love dies, you want a funeral home that is understanding and compassionate to help you through a difficult time. Frederick Funeral Home is there. Serving Colerain Township and Cincinnati since 1932, the family-owned location ensures that the funeral planning process is as stress-free as possible while you are grieving. Their caring staff walks you through every step of the process, from important documentation to planning the details of the funeral. For more on their services, call (513) 522-3700. Visit them online for more on how they can assist with any funeral needs.