Attending a funeral or memorial service isn’t just about remembering a loved one. It’s also a way to comfort grieving family members. To show your support, follow certain rules of social etiquette. Don’t the following mistakes at the next service you attend.

Steer Clear of These Funeral Etiquette Blunders

1. Wrong Attire

Ask a family member if the deceased requested a specific dress code or if there are religious or cultural customs to follow. If nothing is required, keep your attire formal. Never wear jeans, shorts, or other casual clothing. Black and dark colors like navy blue are traditionally worn to memorial services, so keep bright colors and patterns to a minimum.

2. Arriving Late

Memorial services and funerals often start on time. Plan to arrive 10-15 minutes before the scheduled start time so that you can park and find your seat. If you end up running behind schedule, listen before entering the building — if the mourners are having a moment of silence or prayer, wait until they’re done. Then, pick a seat in the back row so that you’re not disruptive.

3. Cellphone On

Getting caught with a ringing phone is embarrassing for you and disrespectful to the deceased and their family. Ensure your cell phone is on silent — preferably turned off — so that no alarms go off. Unlike other formal events, there’s no need to have your phone on to document the occasion. Take the time to grieve and commune with others.

If you need information on what to expect at a memorial service or have questions about planning one, contact Holman-Howe Funeral Homes. For 85 years, this funeral home has been helping the Seymour, MO, community grieve and memorialize their loved ones. They offer compassionate help with every step of funeral planning. Visit their website to see the options for honoring the life of a loved one, or call (417) 741-6127 to speak with a staff member.