If you were recently asked to deliver a eulogy for a loved one’s funeral, you may be confused about where to start. Not only is it an emotional period, but figuring out how to properly memorialize the departed’s legacy can be difficult. To make the writing process smoother and ensure a beautiful, touching speech, follow the tips listed below. 

3 Tips for Writing a Eulogy

1. Keep the Departed’s Personality in Mind

The goal of your speech should be to honor the legacy of the person who has passed, and the best way to to do that is to invoke elements that are reminiscent of their personality. For example, if the departed was known for being a jokester or silly, incorporate a few (appropriate) jokes. Or, if they had a strong religious background, you can utilize a few scriptures in your speech.

2. Include Personal Anecdotes

If you were asked to speak at a funeral, it’s likely you had a strong relationship with the departed. Don’t be afraid to emphasize this in your eulogy. Recall moments you shared together that you feel are representative of the great qualities this person had, and talk about how they impacted you and other people in the departed’s life. 

3. Speak From the Heart

It can feel intimidating trying to deliver a speech in the middle of the grieving process. You may worry you’ll start to cry or get emotional. However, you shouldn’t shy away from these feelings during the writing process. Being authentic in your feelings and memories will touch the hearts of everyone present at the funeral. 

If you recently lost a loved one and need help putting together a beautiful funeral, talk to the team at Robert W. Waid Funeral Home. Located in Meadville, PA, and serving all of Crawford County, this family-owned business has over 100 years of experience helping family members honor the lives of their departed loved ones. Visit their website to learn more about the services they offer, and call (814) 724-1021 to schedule an appointment today.