When parents divorce, family law judges try to award some kind of joint custody arrangement. Generally speaking, it’s in a child’s best interests to maintain a close relationship with both parents. Navigating joint child custody can be challenging, though, and when parents fail to mitigate potential issues, it can put added stress on the kids. Thankfully, there are a few simple ways to make the situation easier for the children involved. 

3 Tips for Helping Kids Thrive in a Joint Child Custody Arrangement

1. Prioritize the Children 

Focusing on what matters most is perhaps the easiest way to overcome any hurdles that might arise in a joint child custody arrangement. As long as you prioritize your children, you won’t be inclined to let the little things bother you. Even if your ex knows how to push your buttons, for example, putting the kids first will make it virtually impossible for them to get to you. This, in turn, will ensure your children have the happiest home life possible. 

2. Seek Legal Counsel 

Experienced attorneys know what kinds of arrangements tend to work best in various circumstances. They also know what kinds of issues are most likely to arise along the way and can show clients how to mitigate them. In other words, hiring a lawyer from the start will ensure your case gets off to a strong start, thereby allowing you to provide the kids with a stable routine relatively early in the proceedings. 

3. Vent to Your Loved Ones 

Everyone needs to vent once in a while, but if it’s about your ex, don’t do it in front of the kids. Otherwise, they may feel forced to take sides. When you're feeling frustrated or overwhelmed with the current dynamic, turn to friends or family members instead. They’ll listen to your concerns, provide emotional support, and offer practical solutions when possible. 

If you’re facing a contentious child custody battle—or you want to modify an existing arrangement—turn to Coyne, Cundiff & Hillemann, P.C. in Lake St. Louis, MO. Serving clients throughout St. Charles County, this full-service firm is backed by more than 75 years of experience in the legal field. In addition to family law, their seasoned team practices personal injury law and criminal defense. To see what previous clients have to say about the counsel they provide, visit their website. To schedule a consultation with a divorce attorney on their team, call (636) 561-5599.