If a close friend or relative recently lost a loved one, you may want to honor them with a small gift or token. Funeral service gifts are not required, but they can help you offer your love and condolences in a tangible way, and they may even provide some comfort to the recipient.

Funeral Service Gift Etiquette

What Types of Gifts Are Customary?

The gift you choose will ultimately depend on your relationship with the family and any stated wishes. If they request no gifts or a donation to a charitable organization in lieu of gifts, do that instead of bringing something. Otherwise, funeral flowers, a sympathy card, or a basket of food items are all thoughtful options.

When Should You Give Gifts?

The timing of your gift also depends on what you choose. If you’re bringing a small item like a bouquet or card, you can easily give it to the family at the wake or service. If they hold a small reception after, food can be a practical option for sharing with guests. If you want to give something that’s larger or more involved, send it to their home at a later date or bring it with you during a future visit.

What If You Can’t Attend the Funeral Service?

If you cannot make it to the service, you can still send a gift. In fact, it may be even more beneficial to send something if you cannot offer your support in person. You can send flowers directly to the funeral home or ship food or a more personal gift to their home. If possible, ask the family if they have any preferences or if there’s anything specific they need.

If you’ve recently lost a loved one, the professionals at Herman-Taylor Funeral Home & Cremation Center are here to help. Based in Wisconsin Rapids, WI, the funeral home has been serving the community since 1953. The directors can help you create a funeral service that is truly personalized to your loved one. They also offer cremation service and funeral pre-planning options. You can view a list of resources, including local florists, on their website or call (715) 423-5460 to speak with a funeral director.