Deciding who gets custody of the children is usually one of the toughest issues to address in a divorce. But, a well-developed arrangement between you and your ex-spouse goes a long way to help your children cope with the separation. While an experienced child custody lawyer can offer the best advice in this situation, it’s not always easy for the parents to do the right thing. Here are some ways joint custody can help your children get through this trying time. 

How to Make Joint Custody Easier for Children

1. Prioritize Your Kids

Shared custody only works if both parents agree on what’s best for the children. Setting bitter emotions and egos aside will make it easier to sit down and talk about your necessary commitments. Be ready to compromise and focus on what’s best for your child’s future. Joint custody is not about getting what you want—it’s about making the transition easier for the kids, so they grow up to be well-adjusted individuals.

2. Find Comfort in Friends

When you have good friends to rely on, they can provide emotional support and help alleviate any anger or resentment you may have. Understand that badmouthing the other parent in front of your children affects their relationship with that parent. Just because it didn’t work out with your ex-spouse doesn’t mean they are a bad parent. Don’t let your children feel that they have to choose sides.

3. Consider Hiring an Attorney

A child custody lawyer can help you come up with an arrangement that suits your needs and protects your child’s interest at the same time. They can also help you get started on the right foot to reach an agreement that is as complete and accurate as possible. Additionally, a child custody lawyer knowledgeable in parental rights law will be able to tackle any future problems that may arise. 

Make the divorce process easier on your kids with a compassionate child custody lawyer. The team at Don Roberts Law Offices will help you come up with an agreement that works for you, your ex, and your kids—quickly and without hassle. You can also seek their services when you need a child visitation attorney, child support attorney or counsel on legal matter pertaining to family and parental rights. Call (614) 777-4500 to schedule an appointment or make an inquiry via their website.

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