Getting a divorce is a complicated process. From dividing the property to figuring out who gets custody of the children, you and your partner will face challenging questions that you must answer before filing in court. To help the case move as smoothly as possible, here are a few important decisions to plan for.

What to Discuss With Your Partner Before a Divorce

1. Dividing Property

When dividing property, California follows “community property” rules. This means that items are divided equally. Unless you own a business with your spouse, property distribution is a relatively simple process. First, figure out your assets and debts. Gather all your recent bank statements, including accounts for the mortgage and retirement. You’ll also need to identify who gets certain belongings, such as cars, china, and furniture. Challenges arise when the couple disagrees over the value of the assets. This occurs when people forget to price items at the fair market value. If you have difficulty with distributing the property, enlist the help of your legal team. 

2. Child Custody & Support

Child custody can be one of the most difficult decisions a parent has to make during a divorce, especially if full custody is necessary. It’s important to figure out what the best option is for your child. You’ll also need to decide on how much the child support should be and who pays it. The amount usually depends on the family’s lifestyle, the number of children, and the income of each parent. Speak with your spouse to give you an idea of what the child support payments will cover and decide on a fair amount.

3. Alimony

Alimony refers to the payments that one former spouse makes to the other after they’re divorced. While permanent alimony isn’t common, it occurs when it’s necessary for the spouse to attain the “marital status of living.” Temporary alimony is far more common today, and it is established on the basis that the spouse who was not working or working less than the other should still be able to support themselves until they can get back on their feet. Because alimony battles can cause stress and resentment between partners, speak with your spouse about the option that best works for your situation.

 

 

When it’s time to decide whether to get a divorce, you need a thoughtful, caring legal team to guide you through this stressful time. The attorneys at My Legal Team, Inc. in Signal Hill, CA, will walk you through every step of the case. With a focus on family law and probate cases, they provide detailed legal advice to clients throughout Los Angeles County. To speak with a member of their team, call (562) 479-0900. Visit their website to learn more about their services.