When a loved one passes away, you have a few options for the type of service you want to hold. Many families choose to hold a wake in addition to their funeral service. As you plan this reception to honor the life of your loved one, you’ll need to understand precisely what is involved and how you can plan one befitting the deceased.

What Is a Funeral Wake?

A wake is a social gathering, or reception, that is held after the formal funeral service. It is typically held immediately after the funeral so people can attend both events. The purpose of the wake is to be a more informal environment where loved ones can pay their respects, celebrate the life of the deceased, and show support for the family.

Wakes are often held at church halls, personal residences, pubs, hotels, or restaurants. The event typically has music playing and refreshments offered. There may be decorations such as flowers or photographs. They usually have an open-door policy, meaning people can come and leave as they wish to pay their respects.

How Are They Organized?

As soon as you have picked the date for the wake, send out the word. A timely invitation is especially important for out-of-town guests who will need to make travel arrangements. Calling, texting, and reaching out on social media are all common ways to notify people of the event.

Arrange for the refreshments. If your wake is not at a venue that offers catering, consider hiring an outside catering company or asking family members to help with this. You likely will be busy enough with other arrangements, so preparing all that food may become overwhelming. It will be up to your discretion as the host whether you want to offer alcoholic beverages. Consider whether you want to have entertainment. One common touch is a slideshow with photographs of the deceased, so you can celebrate their life with your guests. You can also coordinate a candle lighting or sharing of memories.

Arranging a funeral and wake becomes much less overwhelming with the right team on your side. Since 1846, Fred D. Knapp & Son Funeral Home has offered comprehensive and compassionate funeral planning services to the community of Greenwich, CT. This family-owned and locally run home will guide you through the funeral arrangements to plan an event that properly honors your loved one. Contact them online or at (203) 869-0315 to begin planning.