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The Do's & Don'ts of Sending Sympathy Flowers & Gifts June 18, 2019

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The Do's & Don'ts of Sending Sympathy Flowers & Gifts, Columbia, Illinois

When someone you care about loses a loved one, it’s customary to offer your condolences by sending a thoughtful gift. Whether it’s a gift basket or bouquet for the funeral, there are rules of etiquette you should abide by to ensure that it’s received in the best way. Below are a few guidelines to keep in mind the next time you need to send a sympathy gift.


Send a card.

Adding a personalized, handwritten card to a flower bouquet or basket is a meaningful touch. You don’t have to include a lengthy message; one or two lines expressing your condolences goes a long way in showing that you care.

Consider a donation.

If you’re not sure what type of gift to send, inquire whether the family has requested donations in honor of the deceased. This allows you to contribute to a cause that’s meaningful to both the deceased and the bereaved.


Send the wrong type of flowers.funeral

Be selective about the flower arrangement you send. Flowers are symbolic, which is why it’s crucial to choose a variety that expresses the right message. For instance, lilies and carnations are two common choices for sympathy bouquets.

Wait too long to send the gift.

Send the gift right after hearing about the loss or around the same time as the funeral services. Waiting too long to send a gift can make the grieving process more difficult for the bereaved, as it serves as another reminder of the loss.


If you seek a funeral home to help you with final arrangements, turn to the compassionate staff at Lawlor Funeral Home in Columbia, IL. For over 80 years, this locally owned establishment has helped countless families honor their loved ones with meaningful memorials and funerals. Call (618) 281-4123 to schedule a consultation with one of their funeral directors or visit them online to learn more about their full list of services.

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