That gorgeous, sparkling diamond ring on your finger means you've recently become engaged! Now, the hard work begins—choosing a date and planning your wedding reception. The first task can sometimes be more complicated than it originally seems. Therefore, the guide below offers advice for deciding when your big day shall be.

How to Decide When to Get Married

1. Pick a Season

When you think of getting married, do you imagine trees blooming with spring flowers or the warm, crisp colors of autumn? This choice can have ramifications for many aspects of your wedding—from what you and the other guests will wear to what wedding reception venue to pick—so this determination should be made early.

2. Consider Anniversaries & Holidays

Once you have it narrowed down to a specific season, consider what holidays and significant events take place during this time. Some couples love the idea of getting married on a meaningful anniversary date—the day they met or their parents' wedding date—while others prefer to avoid having their big day sharing the spotlight with another occasion.

3. Ask Guests for Their Preferences

If you are not tied to a particular date, ask your parents, wedding party, and friends if they have a preference. They may have trips planned or other prior engagements. They will appreciate your thoughtfulness and it will ensure that as many loved ones can attend your wedding reception as possible.

4. Check Venue Calendars

If you remain flexible as to the time and date, you might be able to secure a discount with your event venue. They may have particular dates that need filling—such as a weekday or a day that had a recent cancellation. Be open and honest with the venue about your budget when trying to negotiate. If they provide catering and bar service as well, they might be able to offer you special deals on a package.

For an elegant, affordable venue for your big day, contact Havelock Social Hall, in Lincoln, NE. Since 1995, they have strived to give their clients the wedding reception or corporate event of their dreams—providing everything from catering options to a high-quality sound system to get people on the dance floor. Visit their website to view their offerings, check out their Facebook for photos from prior events they’ve hosted, or call (402) 467­3002 to inquire about pricing and date availability.