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The loss of a loved one is difficult to process. For a child, however, it’s almost incomprehensible. Though children are often aware of death, they may not understand the significance and finality of it. In the days leading up to the funeral, you’ll need to prepare your child and help them work through their emotions. Here are some tips for helping both you and your child get through this difficult time. 

How to Help Your Child Deal With a Death in the Family

1. Break the News Gently & Clearly

Though it’s difficult, be direct and clear in what you say. Be honest, and don’t try to buffer it with words like “sleep” or “went away.” In the long run, that does more harm than good by providing them false hope. Tell them that your loved one died and give your child a moment to take in the information. They will likely have questions. Give them as much time as they need for answers, comfort, reassurance, and love. 

2. Encourage Them to Express Their Feelings

FuneralEach child is different, and depending upon their age or demeanor, talking may not always be their best outlet. Some children express themselves through art or play. Whatever it is that helps your child work through this complex field of emotions in a healthy and constructive manner is important. Be patient. Let them know it’s OK to cry and reassure them they aren’t the only ones who feel sad. 

3. Help Your Child Find Closure

Funerals are the ideal opportunity for closure. Make sure they understand what a funeral is in advance and explain the process. Let them know who will be there and what’s going to happen, so there are no surprises. If you decide that your child will not attend the funeral, holding your own private commemorative service can offer them a chance to say goodbye and achieve the closure that will help them move forward. 

 

If you’re currently reeling from the loss of a family member, Frederick Funeral Home in Cincinnati, OH, has been helping people since 1932. From funeral arrangements to grief support, this family-owned business is there for you and your family every step of the way. Visit their website to learn more about the services they offer, or call (513) 522-3700 to speak with a representative.

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