An epitaph is a brief phrase that adorns a monument or headstone. Since ancient Egypt, people have been writing these small commemorative phrases to honor their deceased loved ones. They can be witty, enlightening, or nostalgic, and they should attempt to sum up the essence of the deceased in a single line or phrase. If you’ve been tasked to write an epitaph, the idea of trying to encapsulate someone’s entire life in a few words may initially seem a bit daunting. Though it will undoubtedly take some thought, don’t let it intimidate you. Here’s what you need to know about how to write a fitting epitaph for your dearly departed. 

Take Your Time

Though epitaphs are traditionally short and concise, they still take time to write. Don’t expect to come up with one in your first brainstorming session. Short doesn’t necessarily mean easier. What you write will be emblazoned on their headstone, urn, or monument for eternity, so it’s important to take some time to and not rush it. There is a lot of emotion and feeling that an epitaph must convey, and it can take some time to find the perfect slant, pitch, or tone to get it right. 

Explore All Angles

It’s helpful to talk to others who were close to the deceased. Write down what friends and family say and look for a common theme. An epitaph conveys a person’s legacy, the mark they left on the world. What kind of mark was that? Maybe their role as a loving family member was their contribution, or maybe it was their military or social service. Their epitaph on their headstone or monument should be a nod to what was most important to them, so make sure to factor that in as you brainstorm. 

Voice

There’s no set tone when it comes to writing the perfect epitaph. You can make it poignantly sad, whimsical, or even lighthearted and humorous. The important thing is to capture their essence. You can write from your standpoint, or you can use their voice and quote a phrase they commonly said. It’s even fine to quote a book or song they loved if you feel it best commemorates them.

Losing a loved one is difficult, but the planning and preparations shouldn’t be. Johnson Funeral Home & Monuments in Monroeville, AL, understand the challenges presented during this difficult time and can help you through the process. From funeral planning to monuments and headstones, these compassionate professionals understand how difficult this time is and can help to ease some of the stress. Visit their website to see their full list of services or call them today for more information at (251) 575-3222.