There are many reasons why you may not be able to attend the funeral service of a friend, loved one, or acquaintance, whether it’s a schedule conflict or a planned trip you can’t cancel. Whatever the case, you can still offer your condolences to the family and let them know how much you care. Here are a few suggestions to keep in mind during this difficult time.

What Should You Do If You Can’t Attend a Funeral Service?

1. Make a Charitable Donation

If the deceased was particularly passionate about a worthwhile cause, you could honor them by making a donation in their name. This is something that will mean a lot to the family, as it will help preserve the memory of their loved one and continue their efforts to raise awareness for the charity.

2. Visit the Family at Home

One of the most difficult aspects of losing a loved one comes after the funeral service is complete. When everyone leaves and people slowly get back to their normal lives, the family may feel abandoned and alone. These are natural and very painful emotions, but spending time with the family weeks or even months after the loss can make a world of difference. It demonstrates that they’re constantly in your thoughts and that you want to help. Call after the funeral, and let them know you’ll visit in the near future if they’re up to receiving people.

3. Bring Food to the House  

It’s difficult to navigate the basic tasks of everyday life after the death of a loved one. By taking on the role of a “doer” for the family, you can fill in the gaps and handle some of those responsibilities during their period of grief. Bringing food to the home is a very thoughtful gesture, as it will alleviate stress and ensure that everyone remains well-fed when they need energy the most.

Since 1898, families throughout Dardanelle, AR, have trusted the compassionate staff at Cornwell Funeral Home to help them lay their loved ones to rest. They can assist in planning funeral services, along with burials or cremations. The locally owned institution provides comfort and personalized attention to each family, and they can also offer information about grief counseling, as needed. Visit the website for more information, or call (479) 229-2524 to speak to a funeral director today. For more etiquette tips, like them on Facebook.