For most families, inheritance is a highly sensitive matter. Talking about it is akin to discussing the prospect of death. But, explaining your intended wishes in your last will and testament reduces the likelihood of disputes and bitterness among surviving family members. However you go about the conversation, remember to be open, mindful, and considerate of others.

Tips on Expounding Your Will to Family Members

1. Be Clear About Your Intentions

Before having the talk with each person or as a group, write down your intentions and priorities. How you divide your possessions ultimately depends on your goals as the giver. Setting goals makes it simpler to determine what will be left to whom. Doing so will also make it easier for your family to accept your decision. It is of utmost importance as well to weigh the monetary value of your assets before equitably distributing them to your beneficiaries.

2. Listen & Keep an Open Mind

While you may have a definition of what is fair, consider the opinion of someone close to you. More often than not, some of your relatives will have certain expectations on your last will and testament—ask them their thoughts on the matter. They may have a few suggestions on division, or eye a particular item that no one wants. Take what they said into consideration, but the final say has to come from you.

3. Emphasize Possible Changes

Highlight the fact that your existing last will and testament is bound to change. Any number of things could happen between the last family meeting and the time of your passing, which may merit a revision to your will. Remind your family members that it will be reviewed and updated periodically to account for future events and life changes. But, for specific wishes, leave extensive instructions to prevent misinterpretations.

4. Remain Tactful

When explaining your will, put aside your ill feelings toward others first. Refrain from criticizing family members outright; instead, mention how you think the inheritance is better off with someone else. Even if they are against your final wishes, there is nothing they can do about it for now.

Talking out the content and intentions behind your last will and testament with your family is essential to avoid conflicts later on. When writing one, trust a family law attorney from Dickinson & Willis. With over 50 years of combined experience, they have provided excellent legal advice to clients across Monroe, GA. Call (770) 267-8256 to schedule a consultation on living trusts and wills, or make an inquiry via their website.