The advent of social media has brought tremendous changes to our daily interactions. When it comes to sensitive matters such as the passing of a loved one, many are still unsure as to what should be shared and when. From announcing memorial services to handling the accounts of the deceased, the overview below explains what you need to know. 

A Guide to Navigating Social Media After the Loss of a Loved One

What to Share & When

Announcing the passing of a loved one on social media is the most effective way to spread news quickly, but it should be approached with sensitivity. Family members and friends should be notified privately first, as finding out the news via social media can lead to confusion and distress. When informing them, you may request that they refrain from sharing the news on their accounts until you’ve planned a more formal and unified post. 

In most cases, you may want to wait a day or two before sharing the news with your online network. If you’re uncertain about how to approach the subject, one simple way is to post a link to your loved one’s obituary or memorial service page. You don’t have to share any details you don’t want to. Don’t share any unconfirmed speculations or intimate information. You might also consider prefacing your post with a gentle warning that you have sad news to help readers emotionally prepare. 

How to Handle a Loved One’s Accounts

Addressing your loved one’s social media accounts isn’t something you have to do immediately, but keep it in the back of your mind as you make other arrangements.

You may close the accounts. Alternatively, many social media platforms now provide the option of turning a loved one’s account into a memorial page. This prevents new friend requests from coming in, but still allows existing friends to share fond memories or comment on the page. It often serves as a positive place where mourners can bond and honor the deceased.

Once you have details such as the memorial service date and obituary in place, reach out to the various platforms where your loved one had accounts. Customer support staff may request proof of death, such as links to an obituary, before shutting down or memorializing an account.

As a compassionate team providing memorial services and traditional funerals in Monmouth County, NJ, the staff from Jacqueline M. Ryan Home for Funerals knows that navigating a loved one’s death can be overwhelming and challenging. Their caring funeral directors provide support through every step of the planning process to ensure your family member is honored respectfully. Explore more funeral planning resources on their website or call (732) 787-1177 to speak with a compassionate representative.