The loss of a loved one is one of the most challenging experiences in life. Whether they passed unexpectedly or as a result of old age or a lengthy illness, it is natural to feel unprepared and overwhelmed. Amid this emotional time, you’ll also need to manage funeral planning, which typically involves working with other loved ones, such as another parent or step-parent and siblings. With emotions running high, you may find your family is more prone to arguments than usual. Here are some helpful tips to avoid conflict during the funeral planning process. 

Tips for Conflict-Free Funeral Planning 

1. Talk With Immediate Family First 

Ideally, your loved one will have specified their wishes for burial, cremation, or memorial and funeral services in a will. If this is not the case, however, they may have discussed their wants with you or other close family members such as a spouse or child. Get together with your immediate family to discuss your loved one’s wishes privately. Avoid bringing relatives’ spouses and other non-immediate family members into the conversation.

2. Remain Flexible

Remember there is no right or wrong way to handle funeral planning and memorial services. It’s all about your loved one’s wishes and that of their survivors. You don’t need to settle on just one method of remembrance. If one sibling wants a traditional funeral and church service and another wants a more casual celebration of life, you can have both. As long as your loved one’s wishes are the priority, additional aspects are flexible. Be willing to make compromises and ask everyone to do the same.

3. Be Respectful

Be respectful of everyone’s concerns and wishes. Some people may be irritable or angry, natural side effects of grief. Keep this in mind and try to maintain a level head throughout the process. It can be helpful to involve a funeral planning professional who is adept in mediating such conversations. If you argue and cannot reach a compromise, sleep on it and regroup with everyone in a day or two; there is no rush. Ensure that each person’s voice is heard and all concerns are addressed. 

For compassionate, professional funeral planning and preplanning assistance, turn to Arndt Funeral Home LLC. Based in Rochester, NY, this funeral home has served the Monroe County community since 1975. From cremation and burial arrangements to funeral and memorial services, they provide comprehensive services to care for you and your family in your time of need. Call (585) 225-6350 to speak with a helpful staff member to schedule a consultation. Visit the website to learn more about their services.