Funeral services are difficult events for family members and friends, but they can also provide a sense of closure to anyone who’s lost a loved one. Parents of infants and young children often question whether to bring their kids with them. While there’s no simple answer, here are a few considerations to help you decide what’s best for your family.  

A Guide to Bringing Children to a Funeral Service

Will It be Helpful to the Child?

If your child knew the deceased well, attending their funeral or memorial service could help them comprehend the event, cope with their emotions, and be a stepping stone in the grieving process. A service also provides some closure, and can help them process their loss. If your family wasn’t close with the one being honored, consider whether or not your child would benefit from attending the funeral service. 

Will the Child Be Disruptive?

An age number alone shouldn’t dictate whether or not a child should attend a memorial service. However, while children typically understand what a funeral ceremony means, toddlers may find it difficult to sit still for a quiet, extended service. When deciding, consider your child’s degree of understanding and whether they have experience sitting calmly for a long period.

Can You Prepare Your Child?

If you decide to have your child accompany you to the service, take some steps to prepare them in advance so they know what to expect. Explain how long the service might be and what they may hear and see. This will help keep them engaged and prevent any confusion that could lead to disruptions during the event.

The compassionate team from TP White & Sons Funeral Home in Cincinnati, OH knows funeral services can be emotionally challenging for everyone involved, which is why they’re available to help your family through every step of the planning process. Offering pre-planning options, grief guidance, and obituary services, they accommodate the final wishes of every person honored with dignity and respect. Learn more about what to expect of the process on their website, or call (513) 231-7150 to speak with a team member.