Divorce is a long process, often focused more on lawyers than the separating couple. A mediated divorce is different: There is no litigation or courtroom. Instead of a judge, there is an impartial attorney trained in mediation who helps both sides reach a unique and binding agreement that considers the personalities and needs of everyone involved. If you are in the process of a divorce, there are several reasons why you should consider this method.

5 Benefits of a Mediated Divorce

1. Easier on Your Children

Though you may be divorcing, you and your spouse still want what’s best for your children. If summoned to court, children will have to testify which parent they want to live with, forcing them into a difficult situation. Mediation, on the other hand, is focused on cooperation, which leads to more parents agreeing to joint custody. 

2. Faster Than Traditional Divorce

Contested divorces litigated in a courtroom take nine months to a year, on average. A shorter divorce proceeding will allow the healing to begin as early as possible. If both parties are committed to finding a solution, the average mediated divorce will consist of several sessions of two to three hours over three to four months.

3. Cost Effective

Some divorce expenses are unavoidable. For example, Connecticut court filing fees cost $350. However, most mediated divorces are 40% to 60% less expensive than the traditional method. Rather than dedicated lawyers charging hourly rates, the mediated divorce usually only requires a review counsel to appraise the agreement, which takes one to two hours.

4. Private

Court proceedings are a matter of public record—including most divorces. Mediation is confidential under federal guidelines by the Uniform Mediation Act. Even if both parties go into litigation, nothing from the mediation can be used as evidence. State rules apply, and your lawyer will discuss them with you.

5. Fair & More Amicable

The mediator ensures meetings remain respectful and focused on progression. An agreement is reached only when both sides find the terms acceptable, so neither side feels they “lost.” This leads to a divorce that allows everyone to move on amicably.

If you and your spouse think mediation is right for your divorce proceedings, get in touch with The Law Offices of Conti, Levy & Salerno LLC. The team has 75 years of combined experience in family law. If you are in the Torrington area and need a lawyer, they can guide you through the legal process. For more information, visit their website, and to schedule a consultation, reach out to them by phone at (860) 482-4451.