When someone you love passes away, attending the funeral service shows your support for the family and allows you to remember your loved one. With today’s constantly moving world, making it to a loved one’s funeral might not always be possible, but there are still sincere ways to show the family that you’re thinking of them.

What to Do When You Have to Miss the Funeral Service

1. Send a Gift to the Funeral Home

If you can’t attend in spirit, show your support by sending gifts to the funeral home to be presented on the day of the service. Appreciated signs of support include flowers and condolence cards. More unique gifts can be presented, too, such as a donation made in the loved one’s name to a charity that supports something they’re passionate about.

2. Visit the Family When You Can

Make time for a personal visit when you can. Give the family at least a week of privacy after the funeral to begin healing, and then reach out through email, letter, or text to arrange a visit. This is a nonintrusive way to contact them and gives them the opportunity to prepare. Never drop by unannounced, as you could be interrupting private moments or catch them at a bad time. During the visit, extend your condolences, reflect on your loved one together, and perhaps leave a gift. They’ll appreciate the show of support and company.

3. Have Food Sent to the Family

Arranging a funeral, contacting relatives, and mourning will sap most of the family’s energy, time, and strength, preventing tasks like cooking or buying groceries. Sending food will let them know you’re thinking about them, while also making a small part of the process a little easier. Items that are low hassle, like precooked casseroles and finger foods, are ideal, or you can have fresh takeout delivered to their house. Snacks, drinks, and fruit baskets are also useful.

Frederick Funeral Home in Cincinnati, OH, will do everything possible to ensure your loved one’s funeral service goes seamlessly. With over 80 years of experience, this family-owned funeral home will assist with everything, from submitting legal documents to displaying flowers and gifts for the family. Their courteous team provides comprehensive services and support, including keepsake creations and aftercare through their unique program called Stepping Stones, which you can learn about online. Call (513) 522-3700 to start arranging a funeral gift.