If you’re planning to end your marriage, consider divorce mediation, a method of resolving disputes with your spouse without battling in court. In this process, you’ll both sit down with a mediator, a neutral third party who will assist you in reaching agreement on certain issues. If the elements below exist in your marriage, this alternative dispute resolution method may be the perfect way to address the situation. 

4 Factors That Make Mediation Worth Considering

1. Agreement to Divorce

If you and your spouse agree that ending the marriage is right for both of you, you’re likely candidates for the mediation process. If one party disagrees with the divorce and wants to contest the proceedings, however, it may not be a suitable option. If you're not sure, you may want to seek counseling, legal advice, or discuss it further with your spouse.    

2. No History of Domestic Violence

If your relationship involves incidents or threats of domestic violence or child abuse, mediation is generally not recommended. Mediators are responsible for keeping the parties safe and creating an atmosphere in which both individuals can exercise free will. In most circumstances, this will be impossible to achieve if abuse occurred. 

3. Willingness to Be Honest & Transparent

Success depends on both spouses being open and communicative with each other and the mediator. Mediators are obligated to keep all discussions and negotiations confidential. If you’re willing to enter the proceedings in good faith, mediation may prove beneficial. 

4. Agreement on Child Custody

If you have a child or children born in the marriage, you need to make child custody decisions and arrangements. These decisions can be especially emotionally fraught and challenging. If you and your spouse agree on how your time with the children should be divided, mediation is likely a smart option. Even if the matter is contentious, however, alternative dispute resolution can often prove helpful. 

Skilled and knowledgeable, the family law attorneys at Brown, Burgoon, & Hartnagel, P.C. in Bardonia, NY, will help you decide whether mediation is right for you. Since 1992, they’ve advised and represented residents of Orange, Rockland, and Westchester counties who seek divorces, protecting their interests in cases both simple and complex. If you decide to go to court or alternative dispute resolution doesn’t resolve all your issues, these experienced divorce attorneys are equipped to pursue litigation on your behalf. Schedule a consultation with a family law attorney at the firm to discuss your situation by calling (845) 624-1966. Visit their website to read testimonials from past clients.