Traditionally, people read eulogies at funeral services. The speeches are meant to honor the memory of the deceased and give those in attendance a chance to remember them fondly. If you are asked to read a eulogy at a funeral, consider whether you want to focus on the person’s life history and achievements or highlighting a few memorable stories. After deciding how to approach the eulogy, the below tips will help you write a memorable speech. 

3 Tips to Write a Meaningful Eulogy

Keep the Tone Positive

People are still grieving the loss, which can create a somber atmosphere, so focus on positive stories and life details in the eulogy. If you choose to write about personal and professional accomplishments, for example, mention instances that reflect the person’s strength and perseverance. When focusing on memories, include shared experiences that those in the audience also enjoyed. 

Use Anecdotes to Share Basic Facts

When writing the eulogy, keep in mind the person’s likes and interests might have been included in the obituary, too. To engage the audience, present this information in the context of a story. If the person collected vintage cars, for example, you can share the story of how they acquired their first investment or a prized vehicle in the collection.  

Read Each Draft Out Loud

Regardless of what information you decide to include in the eulogy, you should make the speech brief. This will leave time for people to sing, read poems or scriptures, and see to other elements on the funeral service itinerary. Reading each draft of the eulogy out loud is also a great editing tool. You can take out words you trip over, rearrange and condense information, and practice making the speech shorter and easier to understand.     

For additional advice to write a memorable eulogy, contact the caring professionals at Lanham-Schanhofer Funeral Home. Based in Sparta, WI, the staff is dedicated to assisting families in Monroe County make arrangements to honor those they’ve lost. To discuss planning a service for a loved one, call (608) 269-6666. Visit the funeral home online to learn more about the staff, and become a Facebook follower for announcements.