Giving the eulogy at your loved one’s funeral service honors and remembers them. It can also be challenging, especially if you don’t write often. Fortunately, in addition to giving yourself enough time to prepare, there are a few simple ways to help the process go smoothly. 

How to Write a Better Eulogy

1. Make an Outline

Creating an outline of the main points you want to make will help keep you organized while you’re writing. It also helps cement ideas and thoughts in a useful way, and if you have an idea while writing, you can just make a note on the outline and change that section. An outline will also give your eulogy a better flow when giving it at the funeral home, as it highlights how your thoughts connect.

2. Practice It Beforehand

If you’re nervous about giving the eulogy at the funeral service, practicing it beforehand will help you feel prepared and more confident. While this may not always be possible, between spending time with family and speaking with the funeral home, rehearsing will help you remember the important parts. Doing so in front of a mirror will help with making eye contact and monitoring your facial expressions, too.

3. Be Positive

A truly memorable eulogy is a positive reflection on your loved one’s life. Fill it with your favorite memories and anecdotes of them, and express joy at having known them. Extrapolate on some of their best qualities and achievements, and mention their favorite hobbies and passions. The eulogy should give a positive and loving portrait of their life.

The staff at Fred D. Knapp & Son Funeral Home in Greenwich, CT, will provide a personalized funeral service that honors your loved one. Since 1846, this family-owned and locally operated business has been the community’s leading funeral home, providing cremation, prepaid funeral planning, memorial, and traditional funeral services. They’ll do whatever they can to ease your stress and grief, from assisting with arrangements to providing comfort and grief support. Learn more about their services online, and call (203) 869-0315 to make arrangements.