When all else fails, pacifiers are reliable tools for comforting your baby. At some point in their early day care years, however, toddlers may need to be weaned from them, especially since excessive use can harm their oral health. Latching on binkies can be a tough habit to break. Luckily, with the right methods, you can ease baby off the pacifier without too many tears.

How to End Your Toddler Pacifier Dependency

1. Know When It’s Time to Let Go

There are no absolute rules for when it’s time to give up the pacifier. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, once your toddler reaches 1 year of age, you should consult your pediatrician about weaning them off. Most child care experts would agree that between 2 and 4 years of age is the optimal time to quit.

2. Gradually Limit Use

Gently decreasing the use of the pacifier will likely be the easiest for your child. Limit pacifier time to certain periods in the day, such as bedtime and naps, and ask your day care not to give any to your toddler. Over the course of a few weeks, cut back its use more and more until you stop offering one at all. 

3. Offer an Alternative

No matter how you decide to wean your little one off, be sure to offer an alternative comfort item. Stuffed toys and blankies serve as soothing distractions when your toddler starts to miss their binky. See if your day care will allow kids to bring in their favorite objects.

4. Consider Going Cold Turkey

The quickest approach — going cold turkey — can be effective for some children, but it requires the most tolerance for tears. Explain to your young one that saying goodbye to binky is going to help them become a big kid. Validate their feelings of missing their pacifier. Be sure to give them plenty of encouraging words and affection. With love and effective distractions, they may be ready to move on within a day or two.

5. Be Positive & Resilient

Regardless of the method used, there will likely be pleas for their pacifier both at home and at day care. This could be difficult for you and your little one, but remember that quitting is best for your child’s health. Stick to the plan, be confident, and offer consistent praise – the tough process is well worth it.

When you’re reaching early childhood milestones with your little one, make sure your day care center is on board. The certified caregivers at First Steps Southbury Day Care and Learning Center will work with you to ensure your child is developing healthily. Serving the families of New Haven County, CT, for over 30 years, they offer flexible child care services in a safe and welcoming environment. Their unique educational activities will keep your child happy and engaged. To speak with a staff member about enrollment, call (203) 264-3735 today. Check their website for more information about their services.