Saying goodbye to a loved one is always challenging. It can be particularly difficult for children and teenagers. If you’re in the process of planning funeral services and are concerned about the grieving process for little ones, here’s some helpful information to navigate these times. 

Understanding How Children May React to Losing a Loved One

What Should Adults Anticipate From Young Children?

The way people cope with loss varies significantly from one individual to another. This is particularly true with adolescents who may not fully understand death or teenagers who haven’t experienced loss before. Toddlers and young children may ask for their loved one or look for them in various places. You may also notice crying, irritability, anxiety, or the desire to stay close to beloved adults. With little ones, stay open, give hugs, communicate freely, and attempt to provide a normal routine. 

What Should Parents Expect From Older Children? 

In pre-teens and teenagers, you may see displays of extreme emotions, desires to withdraw from family life and depend on friends, increased anxiety, depression, or even defiant behaviors. With older children, maintain open lines of communication so they feel seen and heard. Talk about your loved one’s passing as a family and find ways to bond and connect by sharing memories and mementos. If needed, explore support groups, therapy, or talk to your funeral home for recommendations on how to get through this time. 

Should Children Be Required to Attend Funeral Services?

Parents and guardians should always give children the option of attending or abstaining from these events so they feel like they have control over the decision-making process. Allow them to make an informed decision by thoroughly discussing what they can expect from the day. Talk about who will be in attendance and how a funeral service can be a celebration of life and an opportunity to say goodbye. If your child agrees to attend, remind them they can leave the event at anytime if they become overwhelmed. 

Cannon Cleveland Funeral Directors have been serving families across the greater McDonough, GA, area, for over 75 years. If you’re looking for a compassionate, experienced funeral home that believes in helping every client plan funeral services with dignity and respect, call today at (770) 914-1414 to schedule an appointment. For more information on their services and commitment to helping families plan beautiful celebrations of life rooted in personal traditions and unique stories, visit their website.