Hospice is a resource that can make your loved one’s final days as comfortable as possible. However, coming to terms with an elderly relative’s impending passing can be difficult for an adult, let alone a child. Therefore, parents should try to be forthcoming with their kids so that they aren’t caught off guard. The guide below offers tips for discussing this sensitive subject with your son or daughter.

Do:

Start the conversation early.

You may be busy with caring for your family member but still, make time to discuss new developments with your child as early as possible. Try to be brief to hold their attention and encourage them to ask questions. You might also consider asking your child to explain it back to you to ensure they have a general understanding of what’s happening.

Explain the purpose of hospice.

Tell your child that the role of these new caretakers is to keep your family member comfortable. You may also choose to explain what happens after someone passes away so they know what to expect. At all stages, remind them that they are loved and it’s okay to be sad.

Don’t:

Use euphemisms or figurative language.

While it can be tempting to use nicer words to describe your loved one’s illness, this is more likely to breed confusion—either now or in the future. Children tend to process information literally, so use small but clear terms when speaking with them.

Overlook changes in your child’s behavior.

After you’ve discussed what to expect with your child, keep an eye out for any unfamiliar behaviors that could indicate they’re having a difficult time. A lack of interest in activities they once enjoyed, slipping grades, and refusal to eat could indicate the need for another conversation.

If you have a family member in need of hospice, turn to the compassionate caregivers from Advantage Home Health & Hospice in Poteau, OK. This locally-owned agency has been providing services for the local community for more than 50 years and is committed to making individuals with a terminal diagnosis as comfortable as possible in their home environment. Learn more about their services online or call (918) 647-0653 to speak with a staff member.