When a loved one has passed away, one of the best ways to honor and remember them is by delivering a eulogy at their funeral or memorial service.  However, a fear of public speaking may be getting in the way of being able to do so. Glossophobia, or a fear of public speaking, is very common. Use the tips below to overcome speech anxiety and deliver a eulogy your departed loved one would be proud of.

How to Overcome Speech Anxiety at a Memorial Service

1. Prepare Thoroughly

Knowing your material will do a lot to ease your nerves. Don’t simply memorize all the words of your eulogy, however. This will sound too practiced, like a monologue. Instead, know your main bullet points—such as the stories you want to share and main points you want to make. Practice ahead of time in front of a few family members. Once you feel comfortable with it, talking to a larger audience won’t make a difference.

2. Focus a Few Friends

You will likely see many loved ones at the memorial service, so choose a few of your closest friends and family. Make eye contact with them while delivering your eulogy, switching between them to avoid staring at one person too long. Looking at a friend and imagining you are just talking to them makes your eulogy feel more like a conversation than a speech.

3. Smile

A smile is a small thing that makes a big difference. Even at a somber occasion such as a funeral, a smile is appropriate while speaking. You can also plan to lighten the mood in the room by sharing a favorite funny story about your loved one that will make everyone laugh.

The funeral director at Brown Funeral Homes & Cremations in Martinsburg, WV, will help you plan and host a memorial service to properly honor your loved one—including assistance with eulogies. They offer a wide range of burial and cremation services to fit your budget as well. Contact them online or at (304) 263-8896 to begin funeral arrangements.