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Losing a loved one is always difficult, and every loss is unique. For grandparents who have lost a grandchild, the hurt can be deep. The services at the cemetery are always heartbreaking, but the grief that comes afterward can be even harder. Here are a few ways to help a grandparent through this difficult time.

How to Help a Grandparent Cope With Loss

1. Acknowledge the Special Relationship

The relationship between a grandparent and grandchild is often a special one. They will feel the loss of a vibrant and joyful presence in their life. If they were not close, your loved one might have regrets. Additionally, they will have a child that’s grieving. Keep these sensitive circumstances in mind when speaking to your loved one, and let them know that you feel their loss with them.  

2. Be Accepting

cemeteryGrief involves a complex mixture of emotions. Anger, loneliness, guilt, confusion, and regret all play a role, and each of these emotions may increase at unpredictable times. There is no right way to experience grief, so be accepting of whatever your loved one expresses. Let them know that you’re listening by giving them eye contact when they’re speaking to you.  

3. Give Practical Help

In addition to words of comfort, those in mourning often need help with physical tasks. They can be so full of grief that they can’t cook or clean. Whether they need help getting to the cemetery, grocery shopping, or cooking a hot meal, every action helps and shows your loved one that you care. 

 

The compassionate staff members of Holy Sepulchre Cemetery are here to help you during your time of loss. Located in Rochester, NY, and serving Monroe County, this peaceful and well-kept cemetery provides a beautiful final resting place. To make arrangements, call (585) 458-4110 or get in touch with this cemetery online.

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