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If you’re caring for an older relative or are concerned about your parent or loved one driving, you’re not alone. Seniors are not often quick to give up their rights to drive independently, but it’s also important to consider their safety and the safety of others on the road. Here are some senior care tips you can use to help them determine when the time is right to stop driving, while still taking your loved one’s pride and independence into account.

How to Determine When an Elderly Relative Should Stop Driving

Look for Warning Signs

It’s important to communicate with your loved one regularly and keep an eye out for any issues that may impair their ability to drive safely. For example, if you notice impaired vision or delayed reaction times, that is certainly a cause for concern. Have a talk with your loved one if they’ve been in multiple accidents or have received multiple traffic tickets within a few years. If you’re not sure whether your loved one would share this information with you, keep an eye out for any car damage or scrapes and bruises, and always address those issues with your loved one in a compassionate way.

Have Open Conversations

senior careJust because you may notice some changes in your loved one, it doesn’t automatically mean they are going to be a hazard on the road. As with many aspects of senior care, stopping to drive can be a very complex and touchy issue for a lot of people, so it shouldn’t be unilaterally decided, except in very extreme circumstances. Instead, sit down with your loved one if you notice any of the signs listed above. Ask them questions and really listen to them, and avoid pushing your own agenda. You may be able to come to an agreement that works for all parties.

 

If you’re in charge of senior care for a loved one, it’s important to find solutions—such as senior apartments or independent living options—that will help limit their need to drive, especially if you notice the above signs. The Northfield a Family Service Communities provides that type of environment for seniors in Monroe County, NY. This senior care facility offers a wide array of senior citizen housing options, so you can find the exact level of care and comfort that’s perfect for your loved one. Their enriched housing experience offers a number of perks, such as meals, housekeeping, and laundry service, while still allowing residents to maintain their independence. Call (585) 377-1810 to speak with a team member or request a tour online.

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