Eulogies memorialize a loved one who has passed and celebrate their lives in a meaningful, respectful way. They reflect on their character, their successes, and the legacy they leave behind. If you plan to give the eulogy at a funeral service, below are a few tips for writing the perfect one.

How to Write a Eulogy

1. Personalize It

Begin with your own experience with your loved one and share what you cherished about them. Explain who they were to you and how they affected your life. To further display their character, gather personal stories and details from those closest to the person who has passed so that your eulogy represents them accurately.

2. Include Anecdotes

Select one or two favorite moments with that person as examples of their character and who they were in life. This will illustrate your loved one better than a simple list of their traits and favorites. These treasured memories will most likely remind those at the funeral of similar memories, which will help family and friends celebrate their life.

3. Stay Positive

Funeral attendees are grieving the loss of someone close to them and want to remember the good moments with that person. Avoid uncomfortable examples or stories that may put someone in a negative light, and stick to highlighting their best attributes.

4. Keep It Conversational

Avoid anything too formal and stiff, and choose a more conversational, natural tone. This will make everyone in the room, including yourself, feel more at ease during a difficult time. Use language you are comfortable with and write your thoughts the way you would normally speak with someone.

5. Be Concise

Quality over quantity is best in these situations. Keep your eulogy brief but filled with meaning, and avoid a lengthy speech that may lead to rambling. Aim for five minutes and stay focused on a couple of characteristics or stories about your loved one.

With locations in Amelia, Bethel, and New Richmond, OH, E.C. Nurre Funeral Home provides compassionate funeral services for loved ones who have passed. The funeral home has been a fixture in the community for more than 140 years. Their professional, loving staff will guide you through the process of planning a funeral or memorial service, and provide support for grieving loved ones. Call (513) 753-6130 for information or visit them online.