During a divorce, the priority for any loving parent is the well-being of their children. While joint custody presents some logistical challenges, it’s beneficial for the entire family. Find out why you should discuss shared parenting with your divorce attorney when drawing up your paperwork. 

Top Reasons to Consider Shared Parenting After Divorce

1. Split the Disciplinary Burden

Kids aren’t always little angels. When your children are acting up, disciplinary measures are needed. Having a co-parent back you up when it’s time to get tough can make the task easier. Consult with your ex on how you will discipline your children in general and share any details of current punishments with them—for instance, if your teenager isn’t supposed to have access to their phone.

2. Find Time for Yourself

While dating may not be in your mind now, you will likely want the opportunity to meet someone new once your divorce is behind you. Having time to yourself when the kids aren’t around opens opportunities for romantic encounters. Even if you aren’t looking for a new partner, you can still benefit from the peace and quiet that comes with having the kids away. Use this time to try activities you enjoy, like cooking classes or yoga, or to reconnect with old friends. 

3. See Your Kids Thrive

When you arrange shared parenting with the help of a divorce attorney, your kids have the advantage of seeing both mom and dad on a regular basis. This encourages healthy bonds with each of you, giving kids added stability. The fact that you get some “me time” to de-stress also allows you to be your best self when parenting. Everybody wins.

Planning the details of shared parenting can be tricky. Trust an experienced divorce attorney from Pater, Pater & Halverson of Hamilton, OH, to help. With over 90 years of combined experience, these lawyers are committed to providing each client with the personalized attention they deserve. Whether you turn to them for estate planning or personal injury law, you can expect open and honest communication. Get to know their team via their website. To meet with a lawyer, call (513) 867-1411.