Although it’s difficult to think about, one of your parental responsibilities is choosing a guardian for your child or children in the event you pass away before they reach adulthood. If the other parent is available, they will typically take responsibility. However, if you’re a single parent or you both pass away, it’s best to have a plan in place. Here are a few things to keep in mind when drafting your will. 

What to Consider When Naming Your Child’s Guardian 

Consider What You Want in a Parent

When thinking about who should raise your child, consider the qualities and values you want in a guardian and their ability to instill those qualities in your children. If you want your children to grow up in an environment of honesty and compassion, or with a certain religious or moral foundation, look at your family and friends with those characteristics in mind. Other factors you might consider are the guardian's age and maturity, lifestyle, family situation, and physical location.

Ask Permission & Name an Alternate

Before naming someone as your child’s guardian in your will, discuss it with them and ask their permission. You should be open and honest about your expectations, wishes, and details including financial support arrangements you have made or plan to make. It’s a good idea to name an alternate in case your first choice becomes unable or unwilling to serve if the time comes. 

Get Approval & Make It Legal

After you decide on a guardian, courts are required to approve your decision. They’ll consider a few factors, including the adult’s relationship with the child, the stability of the adult, and the child’s preferences. Upon approval, make it legal with a written will. Without one, the state names someone to handle your estate administration and chooses the guardian for your child. Wills give parents control and peace of mind that their children will be with someone they trust. Your will has no effect until you pass away, so you can change your decision and update it at any time.

If you’re ready to start drafting your will, the team at Wood & Rabil, LLP Attorneys at Law in Winston Salem, NC, is here to advise you. These knowledgeable estate administration attorneys are sensitive to the many factors in the decision-making process, and they’ll guide you as you choose a guardian that’s best for children. Visit them online to learn more about their services and qualifications, or call (336) 722-5700 to schedule a free consultation today.