As difficult as divorce can be for you, it’s especially hard for your children. While your divorce attorney can help you navigate the legalities of the process, many parents are unsure how their children will react to the dissolution of the family, or what behaviors to expect. Below are some of the most common behaviors children exhibit after a divorce.

How Children React to Divorce

1. Depression

Bear in mind that your children will experience divorce differently than you. While you might be glad to be free of an unhappy marriage, your children are likely experiencing the loss of their family and the life they’ve always known. Be vigilant for signs of depression or anxiety, encourage your children to talk, and consider taking them to a therapist if their symptoms persist.

2. Aggression

Many children lack the maturity to process the strong emotions divorce discussions often bring, so they may lash to express their anger. Sudden outbursts, getting into fights at school, or acting aggressively can be common after a divorce.

3. Loss of Interest

After a divorce, children often lose interest in activities they previously enjoyed, especially if they associated them with the other parent. They may also stop applying themselves in school, leading to a sudden decrease in grades and test scores.

4. Trouble Sleeping

The loss of security after a divorce can make it difficult for children to sleep or trigger intense nightmares. After a divorce, your children may experience insomnia and night terrors, or want to start sleeping in your bed again.
 

If your marriage is coming to an end, let the divorce attorneys at Pater, Pater & Halverson provide the compassionate legal guidance you need. Their divorce attorneys have been serving the Hamilton, OH, area for over a century, and have the expertise to help you begin the next chapter of your life. Visit their website for more on their family law services, get more legal tips on Facebook, or call (513) 867-1411 to arrange a consultation with an experienced divorce attorney today.