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4 Tips for Making Your Divorce as Amicable as Possible February 8, 2019

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4 Tips for Making Your Divorce as Amicable as Possible, Fairbanks, Alaska

Getting divorced is almost always an emotionally difficult, heart-wrenching experience, but it doesn’t have to be bitter and contentious. With the help of a dedicated divorce law attorney, you and your spouse can negotiate an amicable separation that minimizes conflict and allows you both to move on with your lives. Below are a few tips for keeping your divorce as friendly and amicable a possible.

4 Tips for a Cooperative Divorce

1. Outline Your Goals

Without bitterness or anger, think carefully about what your best-case outcome would look like. Are you willing to let your spouse take the house in exchange for more cash resources? Would shared custody work for your children? Knowing what you want before negotiations begin will help you stay focused on your own long-term well-being.

2. Seek Therapy

divorce lawMany divorce negotiations are derailed by the strong emotions that divorce almost always brings. Finding a good therapist to help you work through these feelings will help you make sensible decisions and avoid unnecessary conflict.

3. Stay Focused on Your Children

Child custody can be an intense flashpoint in divorce negotiations, sparking litigation which can be extremely traumatic for young children. Keeping your focus on their long-term well-being will help you make the right decisions and give you the motivation to keep negotiating, even when things get tense.

4. Hire a Good Divorce Law Attorney

The best divorce attorneys have an in-depth understanding of the law and the negotiating skills to resolve difficult situations. Even when things get tense, your divorce lawyer can help you settle your differences, concentrate on your long-term goals, and keep your case out of the courtroom if possible.


With two locations in Alaska, the divorce law attorneys at Gazewood & Weiner PC provide effective guidance and compassionate service. Their lawyers have over 50 years of combined experience and the expertise to help resolve your divorce peacefully. Visit their website for more information on their divorce law services, connect on Twitter, or call (907) 375-7905 to arrange your initial consultation in Anchorage. To reach the Fairbanks office, call (907) 452-5196 today.

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