When a loved one passes, you may choose to honor their memory with a funeral or memorial service. If you’re planning a traditional burial, decorating the gravesite and monument is a meaningful way to commemorate the life of the deceased. Below are a few ways you can add a personal touch to their final resting place.

How to Decorate a Gravesite

1. Stones

In traditional Jewish cemeteries, it’s custom for visitors to leave stones on the graves. This practice has its roots in the Talmudic belief that souls linger for a time in their graves. Unlike flowers, which eventually wither and must be replaced, stones are durable. They therefore symbolize your loved one’s enduring spirit and anchor them in the afterlife. They’re often polished or etched with phrases. 

2. Flags

If the deceased served in the military, commemorate them with flags on their gravesite. This is also expected on holidays such as Memorial Day and Veterans Day. You can drape an American flag across their headstone or place a single stick flag nearby. 

3. Flowers

Flowers are popular and meaningful ways to decorate the gravesite of the deceased. Single stems are often touching tributes, while full bouquets are beautiful and moving. Select an arrangement that incorporates your loved one’s favorite blooms. They can be seasonal, such as wreaths and poinsettias during Christmas or roses on Valentine’s Day. Some grave stones also have built-in urns or vases for floral displays. 

4. Photos

Favorite photos of the deceased are also poignant ways to cherish their memory. Protect the photo from the elements by having it printed on ceramic or etched into the monument. 

If you need help designing the perfect grave marker or monument to honor your loved one, reach out to the team at Gibney Monument Works in Perry, NY. For over 65 years, they’ve specialized in custom headstones and engraving services. They also offer a vast selection of materials and styles. Call (585) 237-2750 today to schedule a consultation with one of their professionals. Visit them online to browse their portfolio of completed projects.