Whenever possible, family courts will attempt to issue shared child custody orders to preserve relationships with both parents. However, in some situation’s judges may order supervised visitation instead, which may impede the quality time you want to spend with your child. Fortunately, taking proactive steps can help ensure that your visits are fulfilling for both of you, regardless of the presence of a court-ordered supervisor.

How to Manage Supervised Visitation

Plan Engaging Activities

Building and maintaining a bond with your child depends on doing things together, so come prepared with games, books, and other engaging activities. If you are allowed to take your child and supervisor on day trips, plan a journey to the zoo or an amusement park, or just take them sightseeing in your city. Even though a supervisor is present, you want your visits to be an event your child looks forward to.

Assume the Supervisor Is Reporting to the Court

Most parents with court-ordered supervised visitations plan to eventually pursue the right to visit their child without supervision, if not a shared child custody arrangement. Assume that the supervisor is making notes about your appearance, demeanor, and behavior, and act as though the judge is in the room with you.

Avoid Expressing Negative Emotions

As angry and frustrated as you might be with the supervision requirement, you should never express those feelings around the child or supervisor. Not only does this risk spoiling your time with your child, but it may also reflect negatively on you with the court. Instead, find a safe place to vent those negative feelings, like a counselor or close friend who does not communicate with the other parent.

The family lawyers at Guillien Van Nuland, LLC are here to answer your child custody questions and look out for your family. With more than 25 years of experience, they represent clients in the La Crosse, WI, area, including Monroe, Vernon, Trempealeau, Crawford, Juneau, and Buffalo Counties. They also serve Houston, Fillmore, and Winona Counties in Minnesota. Call (608) 782-4411 or visit them online to learn more about their child custody services and to make an appointment today.