Approximately one in six women and one in 17 men have experienced stalking. To draw attention to this issue, The National Center for Victims of Crime has declared January as National Stalking Awareness Month, using this time to provide the public with a wealth of information on the topic. In addition to talking to an attorney, keep yourself safe with the following need-to-know information. 

What to Know About Stalking 

Common Signs of Stalking 

Anyone can experience stalking, though it often occurs between former partners. Warning signs of stalking can be subtle, but ignoring them often allows the behavior to escalate to a dangerous level. Identifying red flags early on can help prevent a tragedy. The most common signs include: 

• Repeatedly encountering the stalker in your neighborhood or around your workplace
• Persistent phone calls when you’ve asked them not to contact you
• Giving you unwanted or inappropriate gifts 
• Creating situations where they can come to your rescue 
• Manipulating you into interaction, such as hiring an attorney and filing a lawsuit against you so that you’re forced to defend yourself

Steps to Take if You Think You’re Being Stalked

As soon as you think you’re being stalked, make a police report. Begin keeping a log of all interactions you have with the stalker. Documenting the details will help prove your case later, if necessary. It’s also wise to tell your friends and family what’s going on so they can watch out for you. Additionally, consider installing an alarm system and develop a safety plan in the event of an emergency. If feasible, limit the amount of personal information you’re posting publicly online. 

Getting a Temporary Order of Protection 

Should you feel you are in danger of being harmed by a stalker, you may request a temporary order of protection. In New York, family court issues these if your stalker is a current or former spouse, someone with whom you have a child, someone with whom you’ve had an intimate relationship, or a family member. A temporary order will be issued the same day you file and will last until the next court date, at which point it may be extended. If your stalker is a stranger, consult with an attorney about your avenues to recourse. 

If you’re being stalked, don’t wait to consult an attorney about your legal options. Offering more than 40 years of experience, the professionals at Larry R. Koss Law Firm in Brockport, NY, will provide the support and guidance you need to get through this difficult time safely. They’re well-versed in this area of the law and have a track record of success for their clients. Call (585) 637-3961 to discuss your situation with one of Monroe County’s top attorneys. Visit their website for more information about the practice.