When a friend, loved one, or work colleague dies, it's important to attend the funeral service and offer your support to the deceased's immediate family. However, sometimes—whether you’re out of town or have a prior commitment—it simply isn't possible to attend the service. Nevertheless, even when you cannot attend the funeral, you can still show your support in other ways. Below are some of your best alternatives.

How to Show Your Support When You Can't Attend a Funeral Service

1. Send a Card

A condolence card is a simple and effective way to show people you care and are thinking about them. In fact, sending a sympathy card is an appropriate gesture whether you're able to attend the funeral service or not.

2. Send Flowers

In many faiths, it is appropriate to send flowers to the grieving. You can address them to the funeral home so they are in attendance during the service even if you are not, or you can send them to the home of the survivors. Be aware that sending flowers is not a customary practice in some faiths, such as Judaism.

3. Make a Donation

One way to honor the departed is to make a donation in their name. For instance, if the deceased suffered from carcinoma, a donation to the American Cancer Society is particularly thoughtful.

4. Take Food

After a death, the survivors are often too distraught and busy dealing with the transition to care for themselves properly. They may not feel up to cooking, so a belated gift of food is sure to be appreciated. Lasagna, casserole, or a pot of soup they can freeze or refrigerate until needed makes an ideal gift.

5. Sign a Virtual Guestbook

Today, many funeral homes make an online guestbook available so friends and family can leave comments and share memories. Take a few moments to visit the guestbook and relate a touching story, share a funny anecdote, or offer support to the grieving family.

To make plans for a tasteful funeral service—whether for a departed loved one or to pre-plan for yourself—contact us at Abriola Parkview Funeral Home in Trumbull, CT. We are family-run and have been serving the Fairfield County community since 1906. We offer both cremation and burial services and provide sturdy, compassionate support in your time of grief. Visit our website to view location details or call (203) 373-1013 to inquire about pre-arranged funeral plans.