As loved ones age, they may struggle to complete day-to-day tasks. In addition to physical deterioration, seniors are prone to declines in cognitive function. This may manifest as a change in personality, memory problems, and depression or withdrawal. If you’re not sure how to provide the best dementia care, here are a few do’s and don’ts to follow.

Do:

Maintain positive communication.

Arguments and hostile interactions aren’t likely to result in much progress. Instead, maintain a pleasant tone when interacting. Use slightly exaggerated body language and speak deliberately and in a reassuring tone to make your message clear. If you’re not getting through, try to minimize distraction by turning off the TV and closing the curtains. Avoid frustration by changing the subject when necessary.

Engage in simple activities.

Low-stress activities allow seniors to stay mentally engaged and sociable. Prioritize activities with no risk for failure to help boost their self-esteem. Try card games like go fish and blackjack; if they can’t follow the rules, you can have them sort the cards by colors. Physical activity is also important. A daily walk will help them maintain health and give you something to enjoy together. 

Don’t:

Take outbursts personally.

Even formerly mild-mannered people may become prone to aggressive behavior and harsh language with dementia. Remember that this is the result of the condition. Instead of taking verbal lashings personally, try to determine the source of the irritation. Are they getting too little sleep? Is it a possible side effect of medication? Do they feel lonely? If the aggression wears you down and the senior isn’t in danger, take a break to focus on your well-being.

Forego dementia care.

In its most severe stages, Alzheimer’s can result in the inability to walk or speak. Even milder forms can be demanding, so you shouldn’t feel guilty about needing a little help. Skilled home dementia care providers are equipped to help out with a variety of services, including meal preparation, transportation aid, and medication reminders. They also allow your loved one to remain in familiar surroundings and provide companionship.

Do you need help caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's or another form of dementia? Visiting Angels of Lexington-Fayette, KY, employs a team of compassionate caregivers to help your senior loved one from the comfort of their home. Along with dementia care, they also provide respite, personal, and end of life care. Visit them online to learn more about their home care services, and call (859) 223-0398 to get in touch.