It’s difficult to see someone you care about struggle with grief after losing a loved one. It can be even harder to find the words to express your condolences at the funeral. However, when an individual is coping with a death, being surrounded by loved ones can make all the difference. Here are a few ways to offer your support.

How to Help Someone Suffering a Loss

1. Be a Good Listener 

Rather than worrying about what to say, just be present and listen. Whether they wish to talk about what they’re going through or share memories about their lost loved one, be patient and encourage them to voice their feelings. Avoid giving advice or comparing your experiences as this can minimize what they’re going through. 

2. Offer Assistance With Errands

Grief is an overwhelming emotion. Many people who are dealing with a loss may feel overwhelmed with errands, daily tasks, and funeral planning. Take some of that burden off their shoulders by dropping off food, taking care of housework, or babysitting. 

3. Check In Regularly

As time passes after the funeral, it's easy to forget that someone is still dealing with the aftermath of their loss. However, don’t forget to check in on them from time to time. Take them out to dinner or go to a movie. Give your friend a call on more difficult days, such as holidays and birthdays, when the memory of their loved one is probably especially close.

If you or someone you know needs assistance planning a funeral, the caring staff at Silver Creek Mortuary in McKinley County, NM, is here to help. They are dedicated to helping families cope with the challenges of losing a loved one. To learn more about their services, including traditional arrangements for members of the Navajo Nation, visit their website or call (505) 371-3690 to speak with a compassionate staff member.