Death is a difficult subject to broach with most people, but it can be especially trying with children because they typically have very little experience with things like funeral arrangements and memorial services. Fortunately, by knowing what to say and how to say it, you can make the experience easier to manage. Here is a brief guide for how to talk with kids about death. 

Discussing Funeral Arrangements With Children

How Should You Talk With Your Kids About Death?  

Ideally, parents or caregivers should talk with children early on about death, especially if funeral arrangements are underway. Talk with children in a clear, concise manner, while using a gentle tone of voice. Explain to kids that you understand how they may be feeling, and make sure they understand their feelings are totally normal, whether that’s confusion, sadness, fear, or anger. Try to let your child lead the conversation while listening carefully and answering their questions. 

What Should You Explain About Funeral Arrangements?

Since many children are unfamiliar with funerals, explain to kids what they should expect the day of the event. Talk about where you will go, what will happen, and what your little one might see. If your child will be helping with the ceremony, such as offering a prayer or carrying a flag, make sure they feel comfortable helping. Consider practicing at home to eliminate anxiety. 

Dealing with the loss of a friend or family member can be an incredibly trying time, which is why the team at Schlientz & Moore Funeral Home are there to help with funeral arrangements. With a commitment to helping families with immediate needs, funeral planning, and the grief and healing process, this dedicated funeral home will help to memorialize your loved one in a beautiful way. To learn more about funeral planning or other available services, visit their website or give their Dayton, OH, office a call at (937) 253-1441.