With the assistance of fertility clinics, lesbian couples interested in having biological children have a myriad of options to explore. As you and your partner begin the exciting discussion of growing your family, you should look into each available avenue to determine what’s ideal for your household. Here’s a brief rundown so you can make an informed decision. 

Pregnancy Options

Many lesbian couples who wish to have biological children ask a male friend to volunteer as a sperm donor. Using a sperm bank and selecting an anonymous donor is also a popular choice. Once you’ve decided on the donor and a sample has been collected by your fertility doctor, you can proceed with artificial insemination: introducing donor sperm into one partner’s cervix to fertilize the egg without having sexual intercourse.

If both partners wish to actively participate, reciprocal in vitro fertilization can be planned in which an egg is harvested from one woman, inseminated with donor sperm in a fertility treatment center, and the subsequent embryo is then transferred into the other woman to carry to term. If neither woman is able to carry the baby, one of the partner’s eggs can be fertilized by donor sperm in the lab, and the embryo can be transferred into a surrogate mother to birth the infant. 

How to Determine the Right Path for Your Family

To fully understand the options available and which will work best for you, schedule an appointment at a fertility clinic. With the help of an experienced and compassionate fertility doctor, you’ll receive a comprehensive rundown on your reproductive system. From there, based on your ideal timeline and desired journey toward motherhood, you can make an informed decision and begin the process of conception, whether it be via artificial insemination, surrogate, or IVF. 

The Pacific In Vitro Fertilization Institute has proudly served a variety of family units since opening in 1985 when they were Hawaii’s first fertility clinic. If you’re looking for an LGBTQ-friendly fertility doctor who will help you better understand your options to start your journey to parenthood, call today at (808) 946-2226 to schedule an appointment. For more information on this Honolulu-based fertility treatment center and their compassionate, welcoming approach to care, visit their website.