Funerals offer grieving loved ones an opportunity to say their final goodbyes and honor the life of someone who has passed away. While each culture may have their own requirements and etiquette, there are basic do’s and don’ts to keep in mind when attending funeral services. If you are unsure of what to do at a funeral, the following information will explain some customary behaviors you can follow to be respectful of the situation.

Do:

Ask About Dress Code

While somber colors such as black and gray are typically preferred, there are some instances in which the deceased or their family will request something different. Usually, any atypical dress codes will be announced with the funeral service information, but it is okay to ask as well. When in doubt, choose conservative attire in subdued shades to pay your respects.

Sign the Guestbook

Let the family know you were there. Even if you speak with them, funeral services can be overwhelming. Sign your full name and list how you know the person who has died so the family knows who you are and how you know their loved one.

Offer Condolences

You do not have to say anything complicated or lengthy to the family. A simple, “I’m sorry” is enough to express your condolences. If they wish to speak more, be attentive to their words. Follow their cues as to what they need, and move on once you have offered your support.

Don’t:

Use Your Devices

Turn off your cell phone and any other devices you may have. If you must keep it on for any reason, make sure it is on silent, and when you check it, exit the viewing area or go outside of the funeral home. Answering texts or phone calls is inappropriate during a funeral service, and so is taking video or photos, unless the family explicitly allows it.

Sit in the Front

Choose a seat behind the family, who will be seated in the first few rows, if you are extended family or close with them. If you are only an acquaintance, try to keep the first few rows for those who knew the deceased well. If you are late, quietly seat yourself in the last row.

Lose Control of Children

Children should be left home with a babysitter, especially infants and toddlers. Older children can attend a funeral service if they were close to the person who has passed away, but prepare them for the experience and review proper behavior before entering the service.

For professional, compassionate assistance in planning funeral services for a loved one, trust Brater-Winter Funeral Home. Located in Cincinnati, OH, their caring staff will help with funeral arrangements from beginning to end to ensure every important detail is covered. Contact the funeral home at (513) 941-1940 or visit their website for more information on their services.