When a family member or close friend passes away, you’re expected to attend the funeral service. However, when the deceased is someone you weren’t that close to, the decision on whether to attend the service becomes trickier. There are a few factors you can consider to help you make the right decision.

3 Factors to Help You Decide if You Should Attend the Funeral

1. Relationship With the Deceased

One of the first matters you should consider is how well you knew the person who passed away. When was the last time you spoke to the person? Were the two of you on good terms? If you haven’t communicated with the deceased in several years or no longer got along with them, it may be best to avoid the funeral service.

3. Location of the Funeral

Distance is another important factor to consider when deciding on whether or not to attend a funeral service. If the funeral is close to where you live, the family of the deceased will appreciate your attendance. However, if the funeral is far away, it may be more practical to send the family flowers or a card.

3. Relationship to Family or Friends of the Deceased

If you are close to the family or friends of the deceased, you may want to attend the funeral to show support. You may not have known the deceased personally, but your attendance may help close friends and family get through this difficult ordeal. If you’re unsure if your presence is appropriate or not, don’t hesitate to ask the bereaved if they would like you there. 

Fossum Funeral Home has provided high-quality and affordable funeral services in Onalaska, WI, since 1926 and is committed to serving their clients’ needs. These professionals understand how overwhelming funeral planning can be and will simplify the process for you. They are available 24/7 and will make sure your loved one will be treated with the utmost respect. For more information about funeral arrangements, call (608) 783-9777 or visit their website.