How to Talk to a Child About the Loss of a Pet
Many young children have their first experience with death when they lose a pet. It is often a confusing and challenging ordeal for them. Here are some ways parents can help children through the process of grieving for a pet.
3 Ways to Help a Child After the Death of Their Pet
1. Be Clear & Upfront
Young children often don’t understand the concept of death when they lose a pet. Kids younger than six tend to believe death isn’t permanent and their pet will return to them if their parents intervene. Children older than six might grasp the concept of death, but refuse to believe it can happen to someone they love. A sensitive child may even blame themselves, which is why parents should explain what happened, let the child know it wasn’t their fault, and be willing to answer any questions without evading the subject.
2. Avoid Certain Terms
It’s common for adults to talk about putting pets to sleep, but don’t use that phrase when explaining to children, who will take it literally. They may become afraid of going to bed. Instead, use the term “euthanized” and clarify what it means when you lose a pet. If euthanasia is the kindest solution for your pet, prepare your child beforehand and allow them a chance to say goodbye.
3. Don’t Hide Your Grief
Young children learn by example. Seeing their parents express grief or sadness will reassure them it’s all right to show their emotions. Be prepared for your child to experience the stages of grief, which can include anger, denial, depression, and acceptance, and encourage them to talk about their feelings.
One way parents can help children cope after losing a pet is by memorializing their cat or dog through pet cremation and a specialized urn. The locally owned and operated Oahu Pet Crematory coordinates with veterinary hospitals throughout Kailua, HI, and the rest of the island to deliver compassionate memorials for almost every type of pet. They’ve served local pet owners for more than 27 years. If you lose a pet, call (808) 371-7531 to inquire about participating veterinarians.
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