Funerals can be emotionally overwhelming for the family and friends of the decedent. If you’re looking for a way to show your support to the loved ones of the deceased, consider giving a gift to the mourning family before the funeral. It’s often suitable to give a gift, but because of the sensitive nature of the occasion, there are unique considerations and customs you should know. Below is a brief guide of gift giving etiquette at funerals. 

What You Should Know About Funeral Gifts

They’re Often Appreciated 

Gifts to the family are a gesture of respect, especially if you’re close to the family. It shows that you care and support them during their time of mourning. While it’s generally best to send gifts to the family in advance, it can also be appropriate to bring small items with you to the service itself. Still, you should keep the family’s wishes in mind. If they note that they are not accepting gifts, honor their request. 

Choose the Right Gift & Right Time

Flowers are traditional funeral gifts. Many florists offer lovely standard funerary designs, or will advise you how to create the perfect custom bouquet or wreath. If you’re purchasing a sizable arrangement, be sure to have it sent to the family or funeral home ahead of time to avoid inconveniencing the family. Other gifts, such as cards and food, are also typically delivered to the family beforehand. Still, it’s fine to bring smaller tokens of sympathy to the service itself, such as a card, if you’re sure it won’t be disruptive or burdensome to the family. 

Keep cultural considerations and personal preferences in mind when selecting your gifts. Flowers are generally not a suitable gift for Jewish funerals, for example. Sometimes families will ask for donations in place of gifts, which you can pair with a handwritten sympathy card.

Rather than bringing an item to the funeral, consider giving the family the gift of your time. They may need assistance making the funeral arrangements, getting through the events of the day, or adjusting to life after loss. Offer to help with whatever they need, whether it’s providing childcare, preparing a meal, or just being a supportive presence. 

Losing a loved one is always difficult. That’s why the compassionate professionals at Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT, strive to make the funeral planning process as simple and accessible as possible. For 100 years, their team has helped families honor the deceased by offering personalized funeral services and arrangements. Their attentive staff is available 24 hours a day to support you at every stage, from purchasing a casket to scheduling the service and writing the obituary. To learn more about how they’ll help, call (203) 375-2200 or visit their website today.