The death of a loved one is always difficult, especially if you’re called upon to make the funeral arrangements. During this emotional mourning period, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed by the sacred duty of planning a funeral. Here are a few suggestions to simplify the process so you can focus on grieving and healing in peace. 

How to Cope With Funeral Planning

1. Make Decisions in Advance

The planning process is much easier when the deceased leaves behind instructions for their burial or cremation. Whether your loved one is perfectly healthy or nearing their time, ask them about their wishes now so you won’t have to wonder later what they would have wanted.

2. Understand Your Timeline

Don’t feel that you must rush through the planning process. With proper preservation techniques, it’s possible to hold the interment several days or even weeks after your loved one’s passing, if that much time is needed to prepare the funeral and gather family. A separate ceremony or memorial service can be held at any time. 

3. Seek Support From Your Family & Friends

At this difficult time, it’s tempting to keep yourself busy and close yourself off from loved ones – yet this period is when you need other people most. Set aside time just to talk to family members, support each other, and grieve together.

4. Delegate

If you’re finding that it’s hard to make phone calls, choose the family member or religious leader to deliver a eulogy or speech, arrange decorations and flowers, or write the obituary, it’s all right to pass those duties to someone you trust. Funeral home staff may also offer advice or complete certain tasks on your behalf. 

5. Ask the Funeral Home for Resources

Your funeral home likely has connections to a number of useful services. Ask them to recommend professionals such as florists or grief counselors. You can also come to them with questions about how to approach your planning. 

To plan the perfect funeral to commemorate your loved one, reach out to the compassionate professionals at Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT. Over four generations, their skilled, licensed, and respectful staff has served the Fairfield County community, providing 24/7 on-call service. They understand that each family is unique and will honor personal requests and traditions. For questions or to schedule a meeting, call (203) 375-2200. For more recommendations about funeral planning, explore their website.