When going through a divorce, you are most likely worried about custody, finances, and the division of assets. Family law attorneys know that these elements are your priority, and it’s also their job to protect them. While you might want to vent on social media to your friends and family, your posts are discoverable. This means any statements, photos, and content could be submitted as evidence to a family law judge.

Why You Should Avoid Social Media During a Divorce

1. Posts May Reflect Your Spending & Social Habits

Personal social media posts could be used as proof in court to illustrate your social and financial status. Even if a friend treats you to an expensive steak dinner and posts the event online, your ex’s lawyer could use it against you in a family law court to show you have been lying about your means and habits and deserve less child support or alimony. Even if it’s taken out of context, avoid posting anything that might negatively affect divorce proceedings.

2. Deleted Posts Aren’t Really Gone

It's best to assume everything you post to social media cannot be deleted. Deleted posts can remain intact elsewhere. One method is with screenshots. Also, your user data could be subpoenaed by a family law court if relevant. Treat social media posts as if everything is permanently on display, even if you attempt to erase them.

3. Friends Can Pick Sides

Friends and extended family are an unfortunate casualty of divorce. They often feel like they have to choose sides. Perhaps you have set your account to friends only and blocked your ex. However, your friends might report incriminating posts to your ex. To ensure this doesn’t happen, it’s best to refrain from using social media during the divorce proceedings.

Going through a divorce can be an overwhelming experience, but it’s best to stay off of social media until it’s over. If you are going through a divorce and need legal advice, Coyne, Cundiff & Hilleman, P.C., serving St. Louis County, MO, and the surrounding areas, can help. Contact their family law attorneys at (636) 561-5599 today for a free case evaluation, or visit them online to learn more about their lawyers.