Child custody disputes can be emotional and volatile, and when they occur during the holiday season, they can be that much more intense. Fortunately, with a little planning, both parents can navigate the complexities of holiday schedules and visitations much more easily. Here are a few tips to help you do just that.

Work Out the Details Well in Advance

Never wait until the last minute to set up child custody arrangements for the holidays. There's a good chance that both you and your ex want to have the children over the holidays, but that simply may not be possible. Reaching mutually agreeable solutions takes time and negotiation between both parties. And once a setup has been agreed to, don't change it at the last minute or keep the kids for longer than the allotted time. Sticking to schedules is always important in child custody matters, but over the holidays, there are likely specific plans and celebrations in place; try to respect the timelines that you agreed to.

Be Open & Flexible

When negotiating how to set up holiday visitation, aim to honor the spirit of the season as much as possible. In other words, be forgiving, open and flexible, and willing to compromise. If your ex wants the kids on Christmas morning, can you celebrate with them on Christmas Eve instead? Many parents divide the actual holiday itself, so they each have a portion of the day with kids. Whatever you do, be civil and amenable when working with your ex.

Celebrate Together

If you and your ex can maintain even a semblance of civility and mutual respect with one another, consider spending a part of the holiday together with the kids. It doesn't have to be long—an hour or two is fine—but think of how happy, supported, and comfortable the kids will feel having both their parents together. 

The above suggestions will help ensure your holiday is peaceful, merry, and bright, no matter where you're at in a child custody disagreement. The Law Office of Michael Davidson, PLLC has been helping Kentucky clients and beyond for over three decades. He offers representation in custody, divorce, and domestic violence situations. Schedule a consultation by calling (859) 225-1717, or visit him online to learn more about his firm.