Funeral services are a way for family and friends to remember and celebrate the life of those who have passed away. While these services are deeply personal, there are some common etiquette practices to ensure the proper respect is paid to both the deceased and their loved ones. If you’re attending a funeral, make sure that you’re cognizant of the following rules to properly show your condolences.

3 Factors to Be Mindful of Before Attending a Funeral Service

1. What to Wear

There is no specific uniform for attending funeral services; however, it is always a good idea to dress conservatively. Although black is the common attire, it isn’t required; you can wear other dark colors like navy and grey. However, you should avoid gaudy, inappropriate, or flashy clothes that may draw the wrong attention.

2. Who Should Attend

Many funerals are open to the public, but that doesn’t mean that everyone should attend. Close family and friends are obvious candidates to attend a funeral, but it can be prudent to stay at home if a relationship with the deceased or their loved ones has become strained. Additionally, keep small children and babies at home if you’re worried about their behavior — unless you know their presence is welcome.

3. Finding a Seat

It can be confusing to know where to sit during a funeral. Generally, the first few rows of seats are reserved for close family and friends of the deceased. If you don’t fit this description, fill in behind these seats. If you happen to arrive late to the service — always plan to arrive at least 10 to 20 minutes before it starts — quietly walk in available side entrances and take a seat in the back.

Funeral services are personalized events that are unique to each individual and family. By observing the aforementioned best practices, you can ensure that you’re paying the proper respect to the deceased. Cornelius, Dodd & Connell Inc. Funeral Home in Middletown, NY, has been the area’s leading provider of funeral and graveside services for over 100 years. To arrange a funeral or learn more about the planning process, consult their trained and compassionate funeral directors by calling (845) 343-2142 or visiting them online.