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Moving from one parent’s home to the other’s several times a month can be enormously stressful for young children, especially if the relationship between the parents is tense. Children who don’t know what to expect may have increased anxiety, potentially exacerbating the uncertainty and fear many children of divorced parents experience. If you have a joint child custody agreement, follow these tips to make the transition as smooth as possible for your children.

3 Ways to Make Child Custody Transitions Easier

1. Communicate With the Other Parent

Successful co-parenting requires regular communication with the other parent, no matter how acrimonious the end of your marriage may have been. Before the custody swap, speak to the other parent to ensure both of you understand where they should be, when, and who else may be present. Deciding in advance whether there will be any interaction between you will also reduce friction and create a less stressful experience for your child.

2. Make Sure Your Children Know What to Expect

child custodyElements of the transition that may not seem important to you can be confusing and even frightening for your children. Before being dropped off or picked up, explain what will happen, including whether you will speak with the other parent or if they will simply wait outside.

3. Pack Their Most Important Belongings

Stuffed animals, comfort food, and blankets provide children with a great deal of security, so be sure to pack the items that matter most to them. Announcing that you are including each of their valued possessions as they’re packed will help reduce your child’s anxiety and ensure nothing important is forgotten.


 

Whether you’re involved in a child custody dispute or going through a divorce, the professionals at My Legal Team will provide the effective legal advice you need. With more than 30 years of combined experience and flat-fee pricing, this team of accomplished attorneys has helped countless individuals throughout Los Angeles County, CA, navigate the legal system and achieve their goals. Visit their website for an overview of their child custody and other family law services, or call (562) 479-0900 to discuss your options and schedule a consultation.

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